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By Chris Cade
Lately I've been really interested in looking at the meaning of words in new ways. Words are the primary way we communicate (especially in digital mediums). And they are symbols for what lies in our minds, both consciously and subconsciously.
By redefining words consciously, you can actually begin to rewire your subconscious for your benefit. That's because as we live more consciously, our subconscious is also affected (whether we're trying or not).
Today, I'm going to look at "optimism." In most contexts, we think of optimism as assuming a positive outcome. The first definition in a dictionary supports this view:
"A tendency to expect the best possible outcome or dwell on the most hopeful aspects of a situation"
In other words, it's an expectation that the future will be ideal.
What's missing from this equation though is context. Who exactly decides what is "more ideal" or "best possible outcome" or "hopeful aspects"?
Is it your ego? How does that compare if somebody else's ego disagrees?
For example a tennis match. Both players are optimistic that they will win. Each player has practiced for many years and has a variety of excellent techniques to defeat their opponents.
Yet only one can win. Therefore, we have to ask:
Does optimism serve them both?
Sure they both can expect to win. Sure both can prepare to win. Since only one can win though, this view of optimism is limited.
I'm beginning to wonder about a different way of looking at optimism. Here's two other definitions of optimism:
"(a) The doctrine that this world is the best of all possible worlds.
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"(b) The belief that the universe is improving and that good will ultimately triumph over evil."
Regardless of whether we look at it from the perspective of good versus evil, I particularly resonate with these two definitions.
What if instead of viewing the world as inherently good or evil, we viewed it in terms of optimization?
What if instead of asking "Why do bad things happen to good people?" we asked, "How might this experience ~optimize~ for the greatest benefit of the world?"
This perspective makes a lot more sense when we consider the definitions of "optimize:"
"(a) To make as effective, perfect, or useful as possible."
"(b) to make the best of."
In this view, it's no longer about being hopeful or optimistic in the traditional sense. It's not about thinking positively about our own unique situation.
We're challenged to ask bigger questions. Questions that go beyond just what our egos want to say about how an "ideal" situation looks.
We can think about optimization in a larger sense. We can consider how our own personal experience might be contributing to a larger whole.
It's often said "the whole is greater than the sum of its parts." Thus, if we are all parts of a whole, it stands to reason that our personal "optimizations" are contributing to the whole...
And often in ways we can't know or comprehend.
When we step the ego aside for a little while, we have an opportunity to experience optimism in this new way. Experiences, however personal they are, however difficult they are, might just be a doorway through which the Universe is optimizing itself.
The interesting thing about optimization is that we can't know what it looks like. Some might say that an optimized car might go faster in a shorter time period. That is true. However, an optimized car also might use less resources, be lighter, recycle easier, be easier to drive, or just an awesome stereo.
All of those are ways in which optimization for a vehicle could happen. Yet if we only focus on making faster cars, we lose out on the possibility that there's many ways to optimize a car.
Or maybe, while trying to optimize a car a totally different technology is discovered... perhaps giving rise to a new supercomputer or flying saucer technology.
Take for example this story...
Alexander Fleming was a scientific researcher in the early 1900's who had been on vacation. After returning, then working, he set aside a stack of bacterial cultures.
When he returned to the laboratory, he discovered that one of those cultures had been contaminated with a fungus. He also noticed that all the bacteria around that fungus had been destroyed.
This was how one of the greatest disease-preventing agents in history was accidentally discovered. It was named "penicillin."
Sure there's lots of accidental discoveries in the world. It happens all the time. Perhaps that's because the Universe seems to have an optimizing nature about it.
We don't always understand what is being optimized. We don't always know why. But it seems that there's something about experiences that gives us the opportunity to optimize personally and as a collective.
Similarly, there's also different ways to optimize your life. You can't know exactly what "more confidence" will look like in your life. And yet, as you develop your confidence more fully, your life optimizes as a byproduct.
Maybe you engage more socially. Maybe you ask for a raise. Maybe you start a new business. Maybe you challenge your partner to live more fully and lovingly. Or maybe it will lead you to take a risk that leads to a new discovery about yourself.
Who knows?
All we know is that when we view the world through the lens of "optimization," it creates a land of mysterious and unknown possibilities.
Think about it. Give it a try. See what you discover.
Your Partner In Transformation,
Chris Cade
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"In the past, I've had my own issues with the guys of AMP, mostly just competition, jealously, and judgment (all my own stuff. :))"
This landed in my inbox from Jayson Gaddis, good friend of mine who shared this in an email to his list this morning. Wow...
I want to share with you what he wrote about the role of Authentic Community in his life, because I just LOVE how he Brings it --
His humility and transparency set the example of the the values of Authentic Relating we're inspired to bring in the world...and demonstrate the power of
Authentic Community...
Here's what he wrote:
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Last week I helped co-create and facilitate an awesome community relationship practice day here in Boulder, CO.
It was a rich day where all of us simply got together under the context of building a more connected, genuine, community.
We helped each other see what was in the way.
A few examples...
One couple (no longer dating) asked for help clearing a complicated break up and got support from 10 of us on how to be in the same community
with lingering resentments and attraction. Tears, vulnerability and awesome witnessing and holding as they went through it.
In another circle, a woman asked for help clearing some resentment and anger with a former lover. He agreed to sit, listen, and do his best to get her
experience. It was dicey, turbulent, and ultimately began the healing process for both of them.
There were several other VERY healing, empowering circles where folks got support around what they wanted and who they wanted to be close to or
speak truth to.
We will be doing this community practice day again in late November.But before that, my good friend Decker at Authentic World asked if I wanted to help facilitate their Authentic Community Leadership course here in Boulder.
It's a similar vibe-- co-creating the kind of community we want and empowering the key leaders to make it happen.
In the past, I've had my own issues with the guys of AMP, mostly just competition, jealously, and judgment (all my own stuff. :))
Now I feel clean and clear with Decker and in support of his amazing vision of authentic community and leadership.
It feels really good to be a full, sincere YES.
I'm actually amazed at the ripple effect of the Authentic World folks and what they've created.
They are inspiring a new way to be in community together.
The way I understand this weekend event is that it's for up-and-coming community leaders.
Men and women who want to be paving the way for authentic, real connections in their communities.
Folks that can facilitate an appreciation circle at a wedding or birthday party.
Folks that long for more real, raw connections.
Here's the link to register and it's coming up in just a couple of weeks.
I look forward to seeing you there, or evolving this conversation about real community practice.
Here's the link: Authentic Community Leadership
respect, Jayson
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Thanks for this J-- I love the community out there in Boulder, and am excited to be a part of it-- and be working with you again!
So, if you're inspired to empower YOUR community to be this raw and real with each other -- to see and celebrate the unique gifts each person brings, and have the tools to clear resentments and bring more love into the world, then now is the time to take action. You Really Can Have This!
Claim your seat in a training that will accelerate your personal evolution, transform your life and the lives of the people around you.Authentic Community Leadership
In touch,
Bryan
