Keys to Orgasmic Mastery- Master your sexual energy!

By Bryan

Sexuality can be one of the most rewarding, dynamic, and Edgy aspects of being a human being on this planet, yet our culture gives it such a thin treatment, with very little substance and lots of titillation and hype.

Authentically exploring your sexuality as a man can be supremely rewarding- that's definitely what I've discovered for myself!

Sexual energy master Jim Benson is leading a course called Sexual Energy Mastery- a frank, open conversation about sex and how to open up the channels in your body to feel more pleasure, have more control, and even experience multiple or full-body orgasms...!

Reserve your spot here:

Jim's going to cover:

• Five practical tools for gaining more control during sex...
• How to feel more confident about your sexuality, both inside and outside the bedroom
• The 3 types of masculine bedroom styles- Jim thought this might be a little cheesy, ("Bruno Bliss"?) but I feel clear that these sexual archetypes will help you get clear on the next level for you.

It's designed to work with two kinds of guys:

1) If you struggle with the physical and mental challenges of early ejaculation: Jim will help you normalize your situation and teach you the foundational principles of gaining ejaculatory control.

2) If you already have control over your ejaculation, Jim will share with you the tools he personally used to move from "guy with control" to "multiorgasmic monster".

Reserve your spot here:

Jim's the real deal- his wisdom has benefited me personally- and therefore my girlfriend as well :) - and he's trained hundreds of men in having more freedom and self-expression in the bedroom, including several who have learned to access the "holy grail" of being multiorgasmic and having full-body orgasms.

For us men, so often the way our bodies work simply goes unexplored and undiscussed... and this training call with Jim will bring a new level of awareness around your relationship to sex and your body.

If this is an area of your life you'd like more freedom and awareness, register here:

Why I Hate Fashion?

On my personal blog, amongst the chatter and occasional rant, I sometimes post pictures of myself before I go out — for errands, for a nice dinner, just sitting around. I enjoy sharing with my readers the different things I wear, and I love seeing pictures of the bloggers I follow. It may be vain, sure, but I certainly don’t think it’s hurting anybody. And last night, before a dinner with friends, I posted a picture of myself wearing a skirt, a light sweater, and an Italian-scarf-and-brooch combination that once belonged to my grandmother. Amongst all of the things I wear, my grandmother’s clothes and jewelry are the most important, the most treasured. I wear them with pride because I love her, I miss her, and she was a beautiful, elegant woman who cared for all of her lovely belongings and passed them down to me. As the oldest of many cousins, and the daughter of her oldest child, some of her most prized possessions went to my family. When I wear them, I feel more beautiful than I do in anything else.

And with the photo, like with any other, came the usual little smattering of comments and questions. Sometimes I ask for an opinion on things, and my readers are honest enough to give me constructive criticism — which I wholly appreciate. But this time, there was no survey, I was simply showing off the scarf and brooch that I was proud and happy to be wearing. I felt beautiful and elegant and like my grandmother would have called me a “young lady.” I shared simply to share. And amongst the responses I got came one that really stopped me in my tracks:

“Please spare us your “#what i wore” posts. Yours are some of the least interesting clothes. They can’t even be justified as retro or conservative, because that can be done without inducing yawns (see Derek Lam Fall 2012, among others). Not saying you need to abide by any sense of trendiness, but just develop some sense of style or quit it with those posts.”

There is something about this seemingly innocuous comment that, to me, represents all that is truly wrong and awful about the concept of “fashion” itself. This comment isn’t outright “mean,” and it’s not insulting me personally or calling me ugly names, but it is undermining any attempt I made to feel beautiful by reminding me — with a succinct dropping of a fashion name I surely can’t relate to — that I am not “stylish.” Even if I look “acceptable” or “good,” I am not “fashionable” by any means. There was some invisible test going on, and I failed it. And this attitude is so pervasive in our culture, especially amongst young people and in big cities. There is this idea that having “taste” and being “stylish” are far, far removed from wearing things that look good on you, or that make you feel good. The competition arises not from making yourself look the best you can, but from having the most knowledgeable and interesting combination of labels and trends possible.

I have made fun of things like The Sartorialist and super-high-end boutiques before here, and I usually do it with a sense of humor and not too much seriousness, but I feel truly hurt by it quite often. When I look at things like street fashion photography, and see the way they consistently eschew the the opportunity to present real people in all shapes and sizes looking beautiful in things that weren’t necessarily expensive or hard-to-find to just show the same thin, beautiful people in designer clothes — I feel even worse about the way we are looking at each other. It is yet another reminder — couched in a genre that tries to present itself as featuring “real” people–that there is pretty, but then there is fashionable, and you should never pretend you are the latter if you are just the former.

Pictures people post of themselves on blogs and personal sites are often in a similar vein. People who take pride in capturing what they wear are often the same kind who abide by “style books,” and Coco Chanel’s rules, and what came down the runway at Paris Fashion Week. They’re beautiful, and always wearing such interesting and fresh clothes–but let’s not forget that that is their interest. It’s their hobby. It’s what they like to do. Just as some of us may like sports or art or movies, they are interested in fashion. In this way, it’s not just an average person demonstrating what they put on in the morning, it’s someone who cultivated and worked on a “look” and are now putting it out there in hopes of approval. It’s wonderful in its own way, but it doesn’t mean that people who aren’t necessarily “into fashion” can’t do the same. And appreciating a girl in a nice new dress she found at H&M is just as simple as appreciating a girl showing off her new Celine bag with a vintage Chanel dress, in perfectly coiffed hair and bold red lipstick. It’s just not the same thing.

When I get dressed in the morning, I do so with the intention of feeling as beautiful as possible. I almost never wear pants, for example, because I feel much more myself and happy in skirts and dresses. Some people might find it strange, or tell me about all the beautiful outfits I am missing out on — and I do love the looks other women put together in pants, don’t get me wrong–but I don’t care. I like looking the way I feel comfortable. Most of my clothes were inexpensive, but I care for the nice things I have and maintain them well — especially the things I’ve inherited. Some days I might go out looking less-than-perfect, but it’s not the end of the world. There is pressure in cities to look good at all times, but I try my best to fight it and remember that I am beautiful as I am. And there is nothing more sad than having an entire industry — and the people who “live by it” — tell me that I am not good enough, that I just missed the mark. I don’t want my life dictated by what is “in season,” and I don’t need to spend half of my monthly disposable income on a new bag. I just want to wear clothes that flatter me, feel beautiful in my own skin, and enjoy my own style.

Fashionable people do wear some incredible, beautiful things, but they shouldn’t have a monopoly on what it means to look good.

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5 Keys to Sparking And Keeping a Man's Attention, Affection & Adoration (Free Download)...

Mentors at Authentic World have put together a very cool special report for you.

Check it out here:

Whether you're single or in a relationship, a mans attention has the power to light you up and turn you on. It can be one of the most rewarding parts of life.

However, if you

    Are getting attention from the wrong kind of man...
    Are engaging in "bad" behaviors to get that attention...
    You're frustrated that you're not getting attention at all...

Then you should definitley check out these 5 keys, created by Bryan & Marcia of Authentic World...

They're relationship experts who've worked with thousands of individuals and couples.

These 5 keys are the foundations of a healthy, sustainable relationship with men.

It's packed with their personal stories, and fun, edgy practices you can apply that will lead to more rewarding interactions with men, immediately.

Enjoy!

P.s. Pay special attention to key #4. That tip alone could transform your relationships with men forever.

Check out the controversial new program they're rolling out:

The "No-Man Diet"

The No Man Diet- Have more rewarding fulfilling relationships with Men...

The No Man Diet
 
6 Weeks of no chasing, seeking validation or approval from the opposite sex, and redirecting all that wasted energy on making your life incredible.

A lot of women have the same challenges:

*  Seeking approval from men they're attracted to
*  Feeling like they need a man for their life to be complete, and
*  "Losing themselves" in relationship.
 
If any these fit for you, you should definitely check out the "No-Man Diet"- a new program from Bryan at Authentic World.
 
This program is designed to have you completely in love with your life, independent of  a man's attraction, validation or attention.
 
Here's a link to their blog, with lots of cool free videos:
 
Bryan and his team have worked with hundreds of men and women to have more rewarding fulfilling relationships, and the program they've put together will rock you world.

Check it out, here:
 
Talk to you soon.
 
P.S.  Whether this program speaks to you or not (it could benefit ANYONE), make sure to check out the other videos on the blog because they have some really powerful tips and ideas to help you relax out of that nagging feeling of neediness and insecurity when he's not calling you or responding to you.
 
Here's the link again:

No-WoMan/Man Diet: Be completely in love with your life independent of another person's validation...

A lot of people I've worked with have the same challenge:

Seeking validation / approval from the man or women they're attracted to-- whether it's a someone you've just met, one you're wanting to date, or been in relationship for years...

If any these fit for you, you should definitely check out the "No-Woman Diet" -- a new program from Bryan at Authentic World.

This program is designed to have you completely in love with your life, independent of another person's attraction, validation or attention, and replace it with a sense of wholeness, purpose and power.

Here's a link to their blog, with lots of cool free videos:

Bryan and his team have worked with hundreds of men and women to have more rewarding fulfilling relationships, and the program they've put together will rock your world.

Check it out!

Talk to you soon.

P.S.  Whether this program speaks to you or not (it could benefit ANYONE), make sure to check out the other videos on the blog because they have some really powerful tips and ideas to help you relax out of that nagging feeling of neediness and insecurity when the person you're into isn't not calling you back or responding to you.

Here's the link again:

Authentic Community Leadership: Step Into Your Full Potential As a Community Leader...

"In the past, I've had my own issues with the guys of AMP, mostly just competition, jealously, and judgment (all my own stuff. :))"

This landed in my inbox from Jayson Gaddis, good friend of mine who shared this in an email to his list this morning. Wow...

I want to share with you what he wrote about the role of Authentic Community in his life, because I just LOVE how he Brings it --

His humility and transparency set the example of the the values of Authentic Relating we're inspired to  bring in the world...and demonstrate the power of
Authentic Community... 

Here's what he wrote:

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Last week I helped co-create and facilitate an awesome community relationship practice day here in Boulder, CO. 

It was a rich day where all of us simply got together under the context of building a more connected, genuine, community. 

We helped each other see what was in the way. 

A few examples...

One couple (no longer dating) asked for help clearing a complicated break up and got support from 10 of us on how to be in the same community 
with lingering resentments and attraction. Tears, vulnerability and awesome witnessing and holding as they went through it.

In another circle, a woman asked for help clearing some resentment and anger with a former lover. He agreed to sit, listen, and do his best to get her 
experience. It was dicey, turbulent, and ultimately began the healing process for both of them.  

There were several other VERY healing, empowering circles where folks got support around what they wanted and who they wanted to be close to or 
speak truth to.

We will be doing this community practice day again in late November.

But before that, my good friend Decker at Authentic World asked if I wanted to help facilitate their Authentic Community Leadership course here in Boulder.

It's a similar vibe-- co-creating the kind of community we want and empowering the key leaders to make it happen.

In the past, I've had my own issues with the guys of AMP, mostly just competition, jealously, and judgment (all my own stuff. :))

Now I feel clean and clear with Decker and in support of his amazing vision of authentic community and leadership. 

It feels really good to be a full, sincere YES.

I'm actually amazed at the ripple effect of the Authentic World folks and what they've created. 

They are inspiring a new way to be in community together. 

The way I understand this weekend event is that it's for up-and-coming community leaders. 

Men and women who want to be paving the way for authentic, real connections in their communities. 

Folks that can facilitate an appreciation circle at a wedding or birthday party. 

Folks that long for more real, raw connections.

Here's the link to register and it's coming up in just a couple of weeks. 

I look forward to seeing you there, or evolving this conversation about real community practice. 

Here's the link: Authentic Community Leadership

respect,

Jayson

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Thanks for this J-- I love the community out there in Boulder, and am excited to be a part of it-- and be working with you again! 

So, if you're inspired to empower YOUR community to be this raw and real with each other -- to see and celebrate the unique gifts each person brings, and have the tools to clear resentments and bring more love into the world, then now is the time to take action. You Really Can Have This! 

Claim your seat in a training that will accelerate your personal evolution, transform your life and the lives of the people around you.

Authentic Community Leadership

In touch,

Bryan

The 5 Levels of Conversation (which one is yours?)

How to take a conversation deeper?

The crew at Authentic World just came out with this cool special report:

Check this out "The 5 Levels of Conversation":

We've all had a hunch that our conversation with someone could be richer, juicier, more fun & rewarding...  BUT how?

This guide they put together will tell you.

You'll discover which level you tend to speak at, and which level you need to play at to enjoy even more energy, richness and fun.

Plus, you'll discover which level of conversation your social circles tend to connect at:

The 5 Levels of Conversation <- which level for you?

THIS IS PART OF THEIR NEW TRAINING.

If you've been wanting more success in your dating life or in your financial life, building a community around you is one of the best moves you can make, and AuthenticWorld's new training, Authentic Community Leadership, will show you exactly how to do that, step-by-step.  

And, it's super-affordable considering they're including an in-person weekend training with Bryan & Decker in Colorado, as well as 8-weeks of group coaching, all on how to call out the "inner leader" in you.

Get all the details here, here: