Guys! If you make these mistakes on the first date, don't expect a second...

Check out the top fashion mistakes men make on that first date. You will never get a second one if you do these things!

13 First Date Fashion Mistakes Men Make>>>

Foundations for creating attraction and deep connection with women...

By Bryan

It used to DRIVE ME CRAZY that I wasn't able to walk up to women I didn't know and start a conversation.

And so, like anything else I wanted to improve at, I PRACTICED approaching women.

Sometimes, I would see a girl and tell myself, "Even if I'm not physically attracted to this girl, I should at least approach her, just for the practice."

This can be useful, but there's a TRAP.

See, if you practice approaching women, they can EASILY become objectified - an "opportunity to practice my approaching skills"... and women are SUPER-SENSITIVE.

They're gonna FEEL that they're simply a "means to an end" for you, and this is going to impact your level of connection and attraction - Negatively. And if you are basically using someone for practice, it won't feel as good to you either.

I congratulate you for being inspired to overcome your "approach anxiety," and gain facility with meeting women you've never met... but ask yourself:

"Can I access my Genuine Curiosity about this person, independent of 'improving my skills'?"

The answer to that question may be "no," and that's fine.

However, if you can't bring yourself to be truly interested and curious about someone else - her hopes, dreams and desires - then it's gonna prevent you from
having DEEP, REWARDING CONNECTIONS (not to mention that women feel slightly "used" when you interact with them).

Here's a tip to counteract this tendency:

Consider that at one time, the woman you're approaching was a little girl.

Ask yourself,

"What was she like as a child?

Meek and quiet, or a troublemaker?

A girly-girl, or a tomboy? etc..."

This will help you get out of the "approach practice" mindset and help you truly relate to her as another human being...

From this place, your first interactions will be more rewarding for BOTH of you.

Try it out!

And, if you want more killer tips about creating attraction and connection with women that will have you BOTH feeling exhilarated, turned on and excited - whether it's a cold approach, or you've known her for decades - then you'll want to check out our Foundations of Inner Game Program.

We teach you the "Big 3" Foundations for creating attraction and deep connection with women.

Check it out now, here:

Bryan and the AMP Team

How could it get any better?

By Allna Pratt

Dear incredible Readers,

I'm coming undone. First, I had a 30-minute call today with my youngest man ever. A 17-year old man from Germany, on Skype! Total cutie. Wow, how amazing is that?

He's in the YES! Membership (yes, that's how you get a complementary call with me guys *wink*) and after our call about his insecurities spinning in his head paralyzed with procrastination, here is where we got:

"Ever since I was little I liked to dance and my mum used to tell me I got 'the rhythm in my blood' (It's a German phrase; you know what I mean?). I always tinkered with the idea of joining a Hip- Hop dance group - but never did it. Maybe I was afraid I would fail, wouldn't be good at it. I told myself I just can't decide what I want to do. Maybe playing guitar would be the better choice? So I did nothing. But boy, how do you know what you want if you never try it?! So, I just tracked down all the Hip-Hop dance schools and groups in my area. Tomorrow I'm gonna check them out and show up to the next practice.It's about time to do what I want and SHAKE IT! :D Wish me luck, Greetings from Germany, Lukas"

Isn't that the bomb? Rock your bootie Lukas!! Can't wait to hear.

Next, I'm coming undone because I'm so excited to be invited to to be on the support/ facilitation team for Aletheia in LA this month. However I can serve will be divine. Did you know it's the first time Decker has come to Los Angeles EVER to facilitate an event?

It's called Aletheia: A Deep Dive into Authentic Relationships. (January 27-29 Los Angeles)

~*Join me for Aletheia*~

When I talked with Bryan the first time, it was for almost 2 hours (amazing connection). When I interviewed him in San Fran I could see FOREVER in his eyes. They say for this event you will experience:

• A loved one's eyes light up with gratitude for finally feeling seen for the unique gift that they are...
• Crying tears of relief from realizing we can let go of a self-image we've been carrying for years....
• Raw, edgy excitement at feeling finally free to say what's REALLY true for us, without holding back from fear of what others might think.
• Profound spiritual realization, often only found in a monastery or intense meditative practice...

This is the deliciousness I live for. This is what I experience with you in private sessions. On the membership call this month, men were moved to tears, for my voice just makes them feel safe.

~*Become a Member*~

This is the reason why my son called to say he wanted to stay with me because his dad, bless him for all he does do, couldn't support him emotionally when his cat died. I create the safe space to be real, to be welcomed, enveloped, accepted and unconditionally loved even in his pain.

So glorious men, join me at the Aletheia Event in LA!

~*Join me for Aletheia*~

How could it get even better? Just know that showing up as the authentic, glorious YOU is what turns me on, what opens me deeper, what makes me love being a woman, and is the key to getting Her to say YES!

Humongous deliciousness for you!

Blessings,

Allana

The 6-week No Woman/No Man Diet- Become More Conscious about Your Relationships...

By Bryan

Just thought you might want to know a little about what's going on in our world.

For The New Year...

My girlfriend and I are gearing up to take on the 6-week No Woman/No Man Diet.

If you have looked at doing the Diet, you know by now it's not about eliminating the opposite sex from your life, but about being more conscious about how you direct your attention, and whether the activities you're engaging in are nourishing or draining to you.  

So, we're going to be doing our practices together, looking deeply into our relationship to see where we hold on too tightly, operate from fear, and open up those patterns so more love can flow more fully between us...

We'll be pursuing passions that have been on our list for a while (learning spanish, dance, acroyoga, etc.) that we haven't done because we distract ourselves with activities that aren't really serving us... (web surfing, mindless media, too much emotional processing(!) )...

So, it's a mixture of excitement and apprehension to take on this program!

Imagine looking back, even in just a few years. 

Do you remember all the time you spent browsing Facebook? 

Do you remember all the girls you chased, (or guys you gave your number to), or the time you spent wondering whether your partner loved you or not? 

For the most part, I don't. 

I remember the challenges I took on,
I remember when I was most on-purpose rocking my life. 
I remember the times when I went out of my way to create beauty. 

And this is what the Diet is in service of supporting.

So, if you're inspired to rock 2012 bringing your best self, clearing out the old stuffy unconscious patterns, and bringing a blast of new vitality to your life, waking up each day STOKED to do practices that support your passion and your purpose, then join us -- the price goes up tonight at midnight PST, and course starts on Thursday -- and we'd love to have you with us!

DETAILS AND SIGN UP HERE BEFORE PRICE INCREASE...

And whether you sign up or not, I wish you a 2012 filled with rich and rewarding relationships, with yourself, others, and  this incredible, crazy world we live in!

Happy New Year,

Bryan

P.S. For those of you who applied for scholarships, we'll be announcing winners today -- Also... I've thrown in some free bonus audio recordings from Decker for the guys who sign up for the NWD - the "Beyond Confidence" and the "Death Disc" -- get them when you sign up!

Take the NWD Plunge Here>>>

5 Keys to Sparking And Keeping a Man's Attention, Affection & Adoration (Free Download)...

Mentors at Authentic World have put together a very cool special report for you.

Check it out here:

Whether you're single or in a relationship, a mans attention has the power to light you up and turn you on. It can be one of the most rewarding parts of life.

However, if you

    Are getting attention from the wrong kind of man...
    Are engaging in "bad" behaviors to get that attention...
    You're frustrated that you're not getting attention at all...

Then you should definitley check out these 5 keys, created by Bryan & Marcia of Authentic World...

They're relationship experts who've worked with thousands of individuals and couples.

These 5 keys are the foundations of a healthy, sustainable relationship with men.

It's packed with their personal stories, and fun, edgy practices you can apply that will lead to more rewarding interactions with men, immediately.

Enjoy!

P.s. Pay special attention to key #4. That tip alone could transform your relationships with men forever.

Check out the controversial new program they're rolling out:

The "No-Man Diet"

The No Man Diet- Have more rewarding fulfilling relationships with Men...

The No Man Diet
 
6 Weeks of no chasing, seeking validation or approval from the opposite sex, and redirecting all that wasted energy on making your life incredible.

A lot of women have the same challenges:

*  Seeking approval from men they're attracted to
*  Feeling like they need a man for their life to be complete, and
*  "Losing themselves" in relationship.
 
If any these fit for you, you should definitely check out the "No-Man Diet"- a new program from Bryan at Authentic World.
 
This program is designed to have you completely in love with your life, independent of  a man's attraction, validation or attention.
 
Here's a link to their blog, with lots of cool free videos:
 
Bryan and his team have worked with hundreds of men and women to have more rewarding fulfilling relationships, and the program they've put together will rock you world.

Check it out, here:
 
Talk to you soon.
 
P.S.  Whether this program speaks to you or not (it could benefit ANYONE), make sure to check out the other videos on the blog because they have some really powerful tips and ideas to help you relax out of that nagging feeling of neediness and insecurity when he's not calling you or responding to you.
 
Here's the link again:

No-WoMan/Man Diet: Be completely in love with your life independent of another person's validation...

A lot of people I've worked with have the same challenge:

Seeking validation / approval from the man or women they're attracted to-- whether it's a someone you've just met, one you're wanting to date, or been in relationship for years...

If any these fit for you, you should definitely check out the "No-Woman Diet" -- a new program from Bryan at Authentic World.

This program is designed to have you completely in love with your life, independent of another person's attraction, validation or attention, and replace it with a sense of wholeness, purpose and power.

Here's a link to their blog, with lots of cool free videos:

Bryan and his team have worked with hundreds of men and women to have more rewarding fulfilling relationships, and the program they've put together will rock your world.

Check it out!

Talk to you soon.

P.S.  Whether this program speaks to you or not (it could benefit ANYONE), make sure to check out the other videos on the blog because they have some really powerful tips and ideas to help you relax out of that nagging feeling of neediness and insecurity when the person you're into isn't not calling you back or responding to you.

Here's the link again:

Start focusing on your wounds so that you can be BOTH a Healthy Huge Hearted man....

By Allana Pratt

6 (now 7?) Knights Rock It...

Before I give you the boiled down crystallized solutions, nuggets and gems of wisdom that the 6 men on the YES Membership call last night have experienced and integrated into their lives... I want to share this...

  Hello Allana,

 I don't know if you will get this, I hope they forward it to you. I just listened to one of David D Angelo's CDs with you as a guest. My friend said I have to listen to you. We both have CDs from David. Allana holly shit you are spot on with my life and a couple of my ex-girlfriends. I have received so many emails from you and didn't pay much attention to them. I am sorry, definitely my loss. The way you talk about depth through the heart to ultimately get what most humans desire. I am so deep, my confidence really exceeds itself at times. I am a lover, romantic,protector, Cancer, so on and on.

I know who I am and what I want. The problem is I fall deeply in love and when the compatibility bucks heads that's where I am now. My ex of 2 1/2 months is really hard to get over. I really wanted to marry her. She has OCD. That's where the problem is: when I get romantic she starts an argument to keep me from getting close...I want somebody to love and protect and grow with. I WILL FIND HER.

Thank you.

p.s. I am not a wuss boy. I do have balance. lol

I wish I knew your name Nobel Knight!

Thank you for your kind words and glad you are enjoying my support now. You sound like a huge hearted man, like so many of the amazing men I attract that just got the solutions they need from other dating experts.

Men with huge hearts DON'T get over their ex's as easily as other men. Men with huge hearts DON'T bounce back as quickly as other men. Men with huge hearts DON'T make good choices in women if their hearts are wounded. YET men with huge HEALED hearts are the BEST lovers, BEST partners and BEST catches out there, for you have the capacity to deeply, profoundly [fuck us like only a Nobel Knight can.]

(what a shame to waste THAT capacity just because no one has shown you how to hear your heart and all this time you've been thinking you are weak! WRONG!)

Here is a list of what the men on the YES! call have learned from me and inspired in one another, having been part of a community that YOU can put into practice today.

And of course, if you haven't joined yet, do so!

Not only do you get all the archived live calls, past interviews, videos, audios, but you also get fresh material each month and two live calls a month with me! To top this amazing offer off you will also get a 30 minute live (complementary) session with yours truly.

David said in 30 minutes I figured out what his therapist of 4 years hadn't. Just that alone can change your life.

So back to the tips to integrate, you big hearted (albeit wounded hearted) Knight:

1. Why have you chosen a woman who won't let you in? Wounded hearts do this, your wound meeting her wound. Men on the call last night were speaking of dating women who were flakes, didn't keep their word, lies, wouldn't call back or show up, and even played games.

I told them everything outside is a mirror of the inside. What value is there in chasing a woman who doesn't honor you? Yet blaming her just keeps THEM in judgment. Instead, take full responsibility and ask yourself what part of ME is lying to me? Flaking on me or my purpose? Not keeping my word to myself, my commitments, my dreams? What part of ME is not showing up? My boundaries? My ethics? My self worth? My self forgiveness? What part of me is playing games and not stepping fully into my truth?

So love, my coaching to you is join the YES Membership and let me guide you as well. Instead of focusing on her, getting over her, wanting to have married her, fix her, change her, save her it's time to take all that energy and start healing YOU. Start focusing on your wounds so that you can be BOTH a Healthy Huge Hearted man AND one who has integrated your boundaries, values, clear purpose, discernment with what you deserve.

2. Men on the call through our work together have now:

• Completed a masters degree.
  
• Are not intimidated by women anymore.
• Quit a job they hated and found a job they like.
• Committed to moving out of their parent's house January 1.
• Fired business partners that weren't in line with their values.
• Easily approach women and took all power back.
• Know there is nothing they can't do:total faith and determination.
• Feel relaxed on the inside and trust their gut instincts.
• Trust themselves AND the Universe that it's on their side.
• Accept challenges and show up for the journey. They are not hindered by attachment to the outcome.

I am friggen' turned on, inspired and adoring of these incredible men with he deep, powerful work they've done and how they challenge and believe in one another. A brotherhood.

Nameless knight, consider yourself HOME in my love, my arms, my wisdom, my mastery and my 100% belief in you and commitment to your freedom, power and confidence so that you share that big heart of yours with a quality and beautiful woman.

Know you are loved,

Allana

The 5 Levels of Conversation (which one is yours?)

How to take a conversation deeper?

The crew at Authentic World just came out with this cool special report:

Check this out "The 5 Levels of Conversation":

We've all had a hunch that our conversation with someone could be richer, juicier, more fun & rewarding...  BUT how?

This guide they put together will tell you.

You'll discover which level you tend to speak at, and which level you need to play at to enjoy even more energy, richness and fun.

Plus, you'll discover which level of conversation your social circles tend to connect at:

The 5 Levels of Conversation <- which level for you?

THIS IS PART OF THEIR NEW TRAINING.

If you've been wanting more success in your dating life or in your financial life, building a community around you is one of the best moves you can make, and AuthenticWorld's new training, Authentic Community Leadership, will show you exactly how to do that, step-by-step.  

And, it's super-affordable considering they're including an in-person weekend training with Bryan & Decker in Colorado, as well as 8-weeks of group coaching, all on how to call out the "inner leader" in you.

Get all the details here, here: