Showing posts with label self worth. Show all posts
Showing posts with label self worth. Show all posts

Wednesday, March 7, 2012

Most responsible and powerful way to move forward and create change....

By Allana Pratt

Dear great glorious Friends,

He was feeling emasculated by his wife, behaving passive aggressively with her.

He wasn't into his job, not clear what he wanted to do next with his life, feeling insecure and indecisive about his decisions...

And his son was now starting to behave with hesitancy as well.

He didn't have tons of extra cash so we decided the two discounted private sessions with my Dear Lover DVD was the most responsible and powerful way to move forward and create change.

Our first private session was mind blowing.

I fell in love with this man's soul. What a great heart.

You see I don't tell people what to do.

I don't honesty know what's going to happen in a particular session.

I do trust that I will know what questions to ask.

I know I can hold an impeccable, safe, unconditionally loving space.

And I trust my spot on intuition to simply follow the energy to the place of lightness, clarity and freedom...

In just the first session... not only did we clear up the past with his parents, with his decisions with grad school, with money, with his wife... I was drawn to lead him through an extraordinary guided visualization with God.

It gave me shivers.

This man was able to 100% shift his point of view from getting his self-worth and security from external circumstances (always seeking more validation, more money, more something to be enough)... he shifted to knowing his self-worth, self-esteem and security from the inside out... seeing himself as God did.

I hope I remember this right, yet I swear they were drinking Scotch together in the visualization.

Breathtaking how quickly he got it.

Got the truth of his magnificence.

THEN it was time for our 2nd session, yet he lost his job, or maybe it was his wife lost her job, yet instead of pulling out of his commitment, he created a payment plan to make it work and we reconnected just last week.

HIS LIFE IS OFF THE CHARTS!

He's been watching and implementing the DVD curriculum, listening to our first session... yet get this....

He and his brother went hunting, talked for hours and he was a leader suggesting his brother consider forgiving their parents and move on.

1. He and his wife are now going to water aerobics and have lost all this weight

2. AND they are having way better sex, of course

3. AND they went to this theme hotel and stayed in the Hay Stack Loft Room for their anniversary! Bow chicka bow bow...

4. AND when his van called it quits, instead of acquiescing and getting the car she wanted, he actually spoke his truth, researched other options and together they decided on what worked for them both.

AND GET THIS!!!!!

He's been uncertain with what he wants to do, not clear on his purpose, not feeling empowered, driven and in his power...right?

So now he's found a private correctional facility for young men that has really turned him on and vibrantly awakened his purpose.

When we started, he had fear that nearly crippled his capacity for action or self-worth.

Now he's standing up, speaking his truth, reconnecting with his wife, he's invigorated in his relationship with his brother, and is stoked for the possibilities of this new career path.

I have to admit I had tears in my eyes at how magnificently he's applied himself, at how far he's come, at how he made it work to complete our 2 life altering sessions, at how he's returned to his core power, confidence and capacity to create his life.

Can't you just feel what it's like for his boys to witness his shifts?

To feel the love increase in the home?

To watch Dad celebrate incremental steps, little victories, and keep going?

I am so honored, blessed and touched to be able to connect so intimately him and with incredible men like you... about issues that really matter... creating results that make life worth living again.

You have it in you to apply yourself and create shifts.

I am the catalyst to tip you into the next dimension with laser sharp guidance and effective results.

And I'm soooo honored to love you at such a profound time of expansion on the planet.

I love watching a great man like you do the deep work and soar.

It's like witnessing a Knight become a King.

Know I believe in you, that you living your dreams makes my feminine goddess energy awaken and sizzle.

AND I promise... you 'on your game' will make you the man who gets her into the Hay Stack Loft Room saying yes, Yes YES!

Deliciously yours,

Allana

p.s. How would you like to tap into the magnetically sex and noble person that I know you are... the Dear Lover DVD can give you the freedom, power and fulfillment you are looking for...

Saturday, December 10, 2011

Start focusing on your wounds so that you can be BOTH a Healthy Huge Hearted man....

By Allana Pratt

6 (now 7?) Knights Rock It...

Before I give you the boiled down crystallized solutions, nuggets and gems of wisdom that the 6 men on the YES Membership call last night have experienced and integrated into their lives... I want to share this...

  Hello Allana,

 I don't know if you will get this, I hope they forward it to you. I just listened to one of David D Angelo's CDs with you as a guest. My friend said I have to listen to you. We both have CDs from David. Allana holly shit you are spot on with my life and a couple of my ex-girlfriends. I have received so many emails from you and didn't pay much attention to them. I am sorry, definitely my loss. The way you talk about depth through the heart to ultimately get what most humans desire. I am so deep, my confidence really exceeds itself at times. I am a lover, romantic,protector, Cancer, so on and on.

I know who I am and what I want. The problem is I fall deeply in love and when the compatibility bucks heads that's where I am now. My ex of 2 1/2 months is really hard to get over. I really wanted to marry her. She has OCD. That's where the problem is: when I get romantic she starts an argument to keep me from getting close...I want somebody to love and protect and grow with. I WILL FIND HER.

Thank you.

p.s. I am not a wuss boy. I do have balance. lol

I wish I knew your name Nobel Knight!

Thank you for your kind words and glad you are enjoying my support now. You sound like a huge hearted man, like so many of the amazing men I attract that just got the solutions they need from other dating experts.

Men with huge hearts DON'T get over their ex's as easily as other men. Men with huge hearts DON'T bounce back as quickly as other men. Men with huge hearts DON'T make good choices in women if their hearts are wounded. YET men with huge HEALED hearts are the BEST lovers, BEST partners and BEST catches out there, for you have the capacity to deeply, profoundly [fuck us like only a Nobel Knight can.]

(what a shame to waste THAT capacity just because no one has shown you how to hear your heart and all this time you've been thinking you are weak! WRONG!)

Here is a list of what the men on the YES! call have learned from me and inspired in one another, having been part of a community that YOU can put into practice today.

And of course, if you haven't joined yet, do so!

Not only do you get all the archived live calls, past interviews, videos, audios, but you also get fresh material each month and two live calls a month with me! To top this amazing offer off you will also get a 30 minute live (complementary) session with yours truly.

David said in 30 minutes I figured out what his therapist of 4 years hadn't. Just that alone can change your life.

So back to the tips to integrate, you big hearted (albeit wounded hearted) Knight:

1. Why have you chosen a woman who won't let you in? Wounded hearts do this, your wound meeting her wound. Men on the call last night were speaking of dating women who were flakes, didn't keep their word, lies, wouldn't call back or show up, and even played games.

I told them everything outside is a mirror of the inside. What value is there in chasing a woman who doesn't honor you? Yet blaming her just keeps THEM in judgment. Instead, take full responsibility and ask yourself what part of ME is lying to me? Flaking on me or my purpose? Not keeping my word to myself, my commitments, my dreams? What part of ME is not showing up? My boundaries? My ethics? My self worth? My self forgiveness? What part of me is playing games and not stepping fully into my truth?

So love, my coaching to you is join the YES Membership and let me guide you as well. Instead of focusing on her, getting over her, wanting to have married her, fix her, change her, save her it's time to take all that energy and start healing YOU. Start focusing on your wounds so that you can be BOTH a Healthy Huge Hearted man AND one who has integrated your boundaries, values, clear purpose, discernment with what you deserve.

2. Men on the call through our work together have now:

  • Completed a masters degree.
  • Are not intimidated by women anymore.
  • Quit a job they hated and found a job they like.
  • Committed to moving out of their parent's house January 1.
  • Fired business partners that weren't in line with their values.
  • Easily approach women and took all power back.
  • Know there is nothing they can't do:total faith and determination.
  • Feel relaxed on the inside and trust their gut instincts.
  • Trust themselves AND the Universe that it's on their side.
  • Accept challenges and show up for the journey. They are not hindered by attachment to the outcome.

I am friggen' turned on, inspired and adoring of these incredible men with he deep, powerful work they've done and how they challenge and believe in one another. A brotherhood.

Nameless knight, consider yourself HOME in my love, my arms, my wisdom, my mastery and my 100% belief in you and commitment to your freedom, power and confidence so that you share that big heart of yours with a quality and beautiful woman.

Know you are loved,

Allana